Hand To Hand Combat: Proven Techniques to Make You a Networking Expert
Kip Gienau
Become
a More Effective Networker
Most business people don't understand the importance of
networking and the benefits it brings. There are many places to network for new
business I have found the greatest success with The Chamber of Commerce,
business groups and local civic groups. Some are in the early morning while
most are in the early evening. These weekly or monthly events are a great place
to introduce your company to many area business owners. Many morning and civic
groups are run strictly to network and pass out cards to get you new
businesses. On the other hand, The Chamber Of Commerce monthly get together's are
more of a relaxed social event with food and drinks available and are attended
by larger numbers of members that you can meet.
1)
The Plan
Set
your goal, select the number of new people you want to meet. Do not stop until
your mission is accomplished. You must manage your time properly. If you plan
to meet twelve people in an hour, then you cannot spend more than 5 minutes
with each person.
2)
Networking Tool Kit
You have 3-5 seconds to make a positive impression. Most
business people arrive at an event after work and are unprepared. First, look
professional when you arrive. Basic Tool Kit items include: comb or brush, hair
spray, deodorant, cologne or perfume, nail file & polish, shoe polish, spare
pantyhose, watch, pen, breath mints, custom name tag, business cards,
brochures, memo pad, appointment book or palm, and product sample or other
client's business cards (for referrals) if applicable. Have a signature item
such as a big hat, brightly colored clothing, or power tie, something people
will remember when they meet you. Wrap it up with a warm handshake and great
smile.
3)
Are You Ready?
Will
you and your business card be remembered? Your chances are better if your card
includes a catchy company name, your photo or colorful logo. Use plenty of
color on the card. Use the back as a mini billboard listing products, benefits,
services, customer testimonials or personal quote.
4)
What do I Say?
Most
business owners can't effectively convey the benefits of their company or the
products it provides. Develop a 15-Second Elevator speech. When you meet someone
and they ask you what you do, this benefit laden speech will help you explain
without hesitation what your company can offer them.
5)
Here I am
Most
networking events provide a small hand written nametag, which is hard to read.
Come with your own 3' x 4" full color nametag. Make your Name and Business
Name in bold letters and easy to read. You can even reduce a photo or a print
ad and put that on your nametag to start the conversation.
6)
Give It A Try
Effective
networking relies on asking open-ended questions that ask who, what, where,
when, and how. Don't rely on simple questions that can be answered with a yes
or no. This will open a positive discussion with each person you meet. It shows
the listener that you are interested in them. Be prepared to give some unique
information or a personal referral. By doing this you will become known as a
resource to others. They will turn to you for suggestions, ideas, and names of
other people that can also help their business.
7)
Where Do I Start?
When
you enter the networking arena, the first thing you do is eat if food is being
served and have a drink. Eating first serves a specific purpose. After a long
workday we need to boost our energy level, it satisfies your hunger and most
important, it frees your hands for networking and passing out your card. You
won’t be the one be trying to juggle a drink and plate while trying to shake
hands or reach for your business card. Never hold a cold glass in
your right hand because a moist cold handshake is not very inviting to the
person you are meeting for the first time.
8)
Proactive Positioning
Locate a strategic position to network. At the front door
where people will enter and you can act as a host. Near the bar area, you can
network while people are standing in line for a drink. Practice shaking hands
and get good at it. Don't be a strong arm or a limp noodle and stop shaking
their hand after both names are exchanged.
9)
Gotta Go Now
Most
networkers have trouble breaking off a conversation and sticking to their name
schedule. You can look across the room find someone else you want to met and
excuse yourself. Motion over someone else you know and introduce them to the
person you have been speaking to, thank them for their time and move on leaving
the other person to continue the conversation.
10)
Follow Up
Most
people network, collect a few business cards and go home. They miss the moment
of opportunity to set a contact time after the event to call for an
appointment. Write yourself a note for reference when to call, hobbies, family or a
fact about their business. The next day follow up with a personal note or email
thanking them for the opportunity to learn about their business. Send them your
brochure or newsletter or email them information you promised. This keeps you
fresh in their mind. Continue to contact as many times as needed to develop the
relationship and get their business.
Kip Gienau
is a Master Networker and a Certified Guerrilla Coach.
He can be reached at www.adworksct.com